In reply to Zoe Cox's blog 'The cost of Infidelity', Monday 23rd February 2009.
It's like ripples in a pond, the effect that 'cheating' has on a family, it effects everyone. I don't think my brother-in-law intended to cause so much pain and anguish, but he clearly wasn't happy. I know it doesn't excuse his actions but when you fall out of love and no-one listens or reads the signs, what was he supposed to do? Was he really so 'bad' or just in a situation where there was no way out and whatever he did would cause a great deal of suffering. There are always two sides to every story and looking back he gave up everything to be happy, he walked away with nothing, it must have been heartbreaking for him. I only hope she was worth it!!!
It's like ripples in a pond, the effect that 'cheating' has on a family, it effects everyone. I don't think my brother-in-law intended to cause so much pain and anguish, but he clearly wasn't happy. I know it doesn't excuse his actions but when you fall out of love and no-one listens or reads the signs, what was he supposed to do? Was he really so 'bad' or just in a situation where there was no way out and whatever he did would cause a great deal of suffering. There are always two sides to every story and looking back he gave up everything to be happy, he walked away with nothing, it must have been heartbreaking for him. I only hope she was worth it!!!
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